Johnson talks about the relationship with the husband's mother and your husband (which was very enlightening and kinda scary!), his relationship with his father and his relationships with others and how they affect his marriage and his family. He then goes on to discuss their communication styles, their work, sexuality, and their need for respect and admiration.
I did find it funny when Johnson gave an example about breaking an unspoken "girl rule" when he commented to his wife, while on a date, that the girl behind him (whom he couldn't see) had a pretty laugh. His wife got mad and he couldn't figure out why that would bother her. He then went on to warn women to tell their husbands of any unspoken rules because they don't need any more help to get into trouble! Poor men...they really aren't blessed with the communication skills for the most part. He shed light on how their communication is so different and how they need time to process what they just heard. It's not that they're insensitive or uncaring...they just don't know how to express their thoughts on the matter, yet. His examples on that issue showed me how many times my husband and I had experienced that misunderstanding in communication.
Continuing on, Johnson speaks on his odds of meeting your expectations, his emotions, his desires in a wife, his cheating heart, and his needs of his woman. I always hate reading the cheating sections because it scares me a bit, but I do like to know what I can do to keep his eyes from straying and his heart from yielding to temptation.
Overall, this book touched on some different topics that I hadn't read in other marriage books. It was also nice to get one's opinion who wasn't a therapist or a counselor. He had polled men and got some responses back, which I thought made the book for enlightening and the men were probably more honest.
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I received this book free from Revell Publishers in exchange for my honest opinion of this book.









